290 Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend Before Getting Serious

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You may feel the most pressure when you’re first introducing yourself to someone you’re interested in, but that will hopefully not be the last time you start a conversation with them. First dates can be awkward too, but fortunately, finding something to talk about should get easier the more time you spend with the person you’re dating. And the closer you get, the more comfortable you’ll become in asking more intimate, interesting questions.

If you need help figuring out where to start, then read on for our list of fun questions to ask your girlfriend . Choose from funny, deep, and even sexy prompts to uncover more truths about her. Communication is key, and she’ll be touched to see you’re invested in her thoughts and feelings.

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Random Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

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Not all questions have context. Check out the random questions below to learn some new and unusual things about your special someone.

Have you ever had a surprise party?
Do you have a favorite reality TV show?
Out of all the recent advancements in technology, what has impacted your life the most?
What’s your favorite memory from college?
What’s something on your bucket list?
What’s the last random act of kindness you performed?
What’s your favorite flower?
Do you eat a lot of unhealthy food?
How good are you at keeping secrets?
Do your friends like me?
Which fictional city would you want to live in?
If a genie granted you three wishes, what would they be?
What’s your biggest pet peeve and am I guilty of it?
Are you more of an early bird or a night owl?
What’s your number one guilty pleasure?
What’s the most embarrassing moment you can remember from high school?
What’s something you think you could win a world record for?
What are your top three deal breakers in a new relationship?
Are you a dog person or a cat person?
What is your go-to party story?
What’s your favorite book?
What was your favorite subject in school?
What’s the best gift a boyfriend has ever given you?
How do you feel about taking dance lessons as an adult?
Do you prefer indoor or outdoor activities?
Who is your favorite person to go out to eat with?
What’s your all-time favorite song?
What’s the most underrated movie to have come out in the past 20 years?
Are you sharing your location with any friends or family members?
Are you friends with your exes?
What was your favorite playground game growing up?
What’s your favorite movie?
Do you have a green thumb?
Have you ever been arrested?
What’s your favorite season?
Do you sing in the shower?
Have you ever ridden a horse?
Did you get good grades in school?
What are three things you’d bring with you to a desert island?
What’s your biggest complaint about your job?
Who is your favorite author?
Can you do any good impressions?
If you had to dye your hair a different color, which would you choose?
If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would you choose?
What is your favorite household chore?
What’s your favorite thing to do after work?
How many pairs of shoes do you own?
What’s your least favorite mode of transportation?
How many pillows do you sleep with?

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Romantic Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

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Look to these romantic questions when you’re looking to spice things up. They might even lead to a more significant conversations about your past love life, and where you want to take it next.

What’s your ideal date night?
What’s your favorite romantic movie?
What’s the most romantic memory you have of me?
Where do you most like to be kissed?
Do you like it when I hold your hand in public?
Do you think I should learn how to dance?
Do you prefer foot massages or back massages?
What kind of music relaxes you the most?
What’s your favorite dessert?
Do you like bubble baths?
Can you tell me a few details of your dream wedding?
Do you have a favorite poem?
Do you enjoy breakfast in bed?
What’s your primary love language?
What’s your dream vacation?
What makes you feel the most loved?
Which displays of affection do you think should be performed daily within a relationship?
What does love mean to you?
What’s your favorite real-life love story?
What love song do you think best represents our relationship?
What do you want to do for our anniversary?
Do you remember our first kiss?
What kind of music puts you in the mood?
What physical action or gesture do you find most romantic?
What song makes you think of me?
Where do you like to be touched most?
What outfit do you think I look the sexiest in?
Is there anything you might not know about me but would like to?
What was the hardest we’ve ever laughed together?
What first attracted you to me?
What outfit of mine do you like best?
What can I do to improve our relationship?

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Funny Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

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There’s only so much time you can spend asking your girlfriend romantic questions. Switch gears when the time is right, and offer up a few prompts sure to make her laugh.

Out of all your former classmates, who had the funniest name?
What kind of candy bar would you use to describe our sex life?
Which cartoon character did you have the biggest crush on as a kid?
Have you ever been pooped on by a bird? Or any other animals?
If you had to smell like one thing every day for the rest of your life, what would you choose?
Would you rather lose an eyebrow or grow a mustache?
What’s the best accent you can do?
Why do you love drinking iced coffee but abandon hot coffee once it gets cold?
Can you lick your eyebrow?
What’s the funniest pick-up line you’ve ever heard?
Who would you choose to play me in a movie?
What’s the silliest way you’ve ever injured yourself?
Which ’90s sitcom do you relate to most?
Would you rather be smelly or sticky for the rest of your life?
What’s one show that you’re embarrassed to admit you like?
Which emoji do you use most?
If you could substitute sleep for another activity that would help you recharge, what would you settle on?
What is the single most annoying personality trait someone could possess?
If you could max out a credit card at one store and never have to pay the bill, where would you go?
Under what circumstances would you agree to go on reality TV?
Do you know how to fold a fitted sheet?
What’s the sexiest name you’ve ever heard?
Do you secretly steal stuff from hotel rooms?
If you were a waitress and a customer was rude, would you spit in their food?
If you were born a child prodigy, what would you want to be most skilled in?
Would you rather shave your head or dye your hair slime green?
If you could pick a new first name, what would you choose?

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Weird Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

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Have you ever participated in a hot dog eating contest?
Have you ever had a crush on a fictional character?
Do you think skeletons are creepy or make cool decor?
Do you talk to yourself a lot?
Do you like to eavesdrop on your neighbors?
What’s the most fascinating true crime story you’ve heard lately?
Netflix or Hulu?
What’s one food that sounds disgusting but is actually delicious?
Have you ever pulled off a great April Fool’s prank?
What’s the worst superpower to have?
Do you refer to energy drinks by flavor or by color?
Have you ever cut your own hair?
Have you ever had a secret admirer?
Are you keeping any secrets from me?
How many times a week do you poop?
If you could have dinner with a famous person—dead or alive—who would you choose?
Do you sing in the shower?
At what age did you stop playing with toys?
How old were you when you discovered Santa Claus wasn’t real?
What would you do if you found a dead body in a hotel room?
Have you ever swallowed toothpaste?
If animals could talk, which species do you think would have the nicest personality?
What would you choose to be my theme song?
Do you use different towels for your hair and your body?
What’s the worst superpower?
If you could remain one age forever what would you choose?
If you could exchange lives with one of your siblings, would you?
Do you think eyebrows should be considered facial hair?
If you could invent a country, what would you name it?
What would you do if you found out you had a long-lost twin?
What’s the tallest building you’ve been to the top of?
What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sleep (and why)?
Roller coasters: yes or no?
Is your glass usually half empty or half full?
Do you collect anything?
What kind of clothes do you wish would come back into style?
If you had a warning label, what would it say?
What’s your least favorite holiday tradition?

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Deep Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

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These deep questions can help you learn some of your partner’s deep thoughts and more of their history.

What’s one piece of advice you’d give to your younger self?
Who has been the most positive influence on your life?
Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship?
What was your most serious relationship?
What is something vital to maintaining a healthy relationship?
Why did your last relationship come to an end?
What do you think was the most vulnerable moment of your life?
What was the most valuable lesson you’ve learned from a past relationship?
Do you believe in the concept of soul mates?
Can you describe your dream job?
What’s the most important thing to know about your communication style?
What proof of personal growth do you see in yourself?
What’s something I do that helps you feel sexy?
Does your family have any cultural or religious beliefs/traditions I should know about?
What’s your favorite childhood memory?
How do you define success at work?
What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever been given?
What’s something that you think most people learn too late?
How would you respond if your partner underwent a drastic physical transformation?
Do you feel heard in our relationship?
What moment in life taught you the most about yourself?
Have you ever cheated on a partner?
Are you religious?
What are some things your parents expect of your partner?
What’s your biggest fear?
When was the last time you did something you regret?
How do you think the one percent should spend their fortunes?
What’s the longest relationship you’ve ever had?
Do you believe in monogamy?
Where do you see yourself in five years?
Do you want children?
When are you happiest?
In a long-term relationship, do you think people should stick to similar diets?
What was the most difficult chapter in your childhood?
What do you think is the most difficult aspect of getting older?
How can I better support you?
How would you react if you thought your partner was drinking too much?
How do you feel about age-gap relationships?
Would you ever consider adopting a child?
Do you think it’s helpful for U.S. Americans to learn another language?
What’s something you would never do again?
Are you close to your parents?
Would you marry someone of a different faith?
Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
Do you believe in love at first sight?

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Dirty Questions Sure to Make Your Girl Blush

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If you want to know more about what your girlfriend likes, dislikes, and even fantasizes about, see which of the dirty, flirty questions below she’s most eager to answer.

What’s your least favorite sexual position?
How old were you when you had your first kiss?
Do you have a favorite toy to use in the bedroom?
Have you ever had a threesome?
Have you ever put on a strip show for any of your previous partners?
Have you ever had a romantic encounter with someone of the same sex?
How often do you masturbate?
Do you ever fantasize about me?
Have you ever been skinny-dipping?
Have you ever paid for porn?
Do you have a favorite sexual position?
Do you enjoy oral sex?
What’s your biggest turn-on?
Do you own any lingerie?
How many times a day do you think about sex?
What’s the sexiest part of the male body?
What’s the sexiest part of the female body?
What’s the dirtiest thing you’ve ever done in public?
What’s the craziest place you’ve ever gotten it on?
Do you ever sleep in the nude?
How do you feel about morning sex?
What’s something that turns you on?
Have you ever been blindfolded in bed?
Are you satisfied with our sex life?
Who do you like to make the first move?
Do you have a fetish?
Have you ever dressed up or acted in a certain way to help someone else fulfill a fantasy?
Have you ever sent someone a naked photo?
Do you like to sext?
Do you have any go-to moves in bed?
Have you ever pursued a relationship that was somehow taboo?
How do you feel about public displays of affection?
Do you like having sex with the lights on or off?

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Cute Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

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A few cute questions can go a long way in making your partner feel loved. Try out some of these next time you’re in an affectionate mood.

When did you realize you liked me?
What do you think made me fall in love with you?
What’s your favorite family tradition?
How would you describe your perfect Valentine’s Day?
Of all the dates we’ve been on, which one was your favorite?
What’s the best compliment I’ve ever given you?
What do you think my first impression of you was?
Do you like spending time together?
What country would you like to explore together?
Would you prefer a grand romantic gesture or something more low-key?
Which bad habit of mine bugs you the most?
What is your favorite children’s book?
Am I your best friend?
Am I your typical type?
What’s your favorite nickname?
Are you ticklish?
What is it about you that I’m so drawn to?
What are you thinking about right now?
How in the world were you still single when I met you?
Do you want to take a nap together?
What do you love most about our life together?
What do you think is on my mind right now?
Truth or dare ?
If we ever get a pet, what do you want to name it?
How many hugs can I give you per day?
Should we get out of town this weekend?
How can I help you relax?
Is there anything you want me to pick up on my way home from work?
Have I told you yet how amazing you are?

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Interesting Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

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Choose from the list below to keep the conversation light, leisurely, and entertaining.

Which historical figure do you think has had the biggest impact on your life?
Where would you go if you could live anywhere in the world?
Who is your hero?
What are some differences we can apply to people who eat out all the time and people who insist on cooking that have nothing to do with food?
Do think individuals who speak different languages approach certain things in life differently?
What’s the biggest scar you have and how did you get it?
Do you believe in ghosts?
What’s one hobby you’ve always wanted to pursue?
If you had an additional two hours in your day, what would you do with the time?
What book/movie/painting has had the biggest impact on you?
How did you and your best friend meet?
What’s something your parents taught you that turned out not to be true?
Did you move a lot as a kid?
What’s your favorite season?
Have you ever been to a Broadway play?
Do you consider yourself a very health-conscious person?
What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done for love?
What’s your worst date story?
Who do you think is your celebrity look alike?
Do you prefer coffee shops or bars?
Who has been the most useless U.S. president?
Could you describe your ideal relationship in one sentence?
Would you rather spend a week at the beach or up in the mountains?
Do you like working out in the gym or outdoors?
Would you move across the world to be with someone you love?
Do you like trying new cuisines?
How would you like to come across your 15 minutes of fame?
What did you used to think was cool that isn’t cool now?
What “old person” things do you do?
Do you believe in psychic abilities?
What’s the dumbest law that’s still around?
Have you ever been attracted to a cartoon character?
What’s your favorite holiday side dish?
Do you have a hard time falling asleep?
What’s a song that you know every word to?
Which fictional character would make the best roommate?
If you had to name your child after a food what would you choose?

Why It Is Important to Keep Asking Questions

Asking questions should always factor into a budding romance. The more you want to get to know someone, the more questions you end up asking. And guess what? That instinct can do you a lot of good when it comes to dating.

A 2017 study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology determined that people who ask more questions are perceived as more likable by the people around them. “When people… ask more questions , they are perceived as higher in responsiveness, an interpersonal construct that captures listening, understanding, validation, and care,” write the authors.

Of course, the kinds of questions we ask matters a great deal. Logically, it makes sense to steer clear of more sensitive topics early in a relationship. That way, no one will feel ambushed or pressured. But additional research suggests that avoiding important—albeit uncomfortable—conversation topics actually does a disservice to those around us.

A separate study published in 2021 found that we tend to overestimate how sensitive people are about certain subjects. Based on the research, respondents are just as likely to form favorable opinions about individuals asking harder questions as they are those who stick to safer themes, like work or the weather.

Though etiquette experts may continue pushing for uncomplicated question-asking, the authors assert, “This advice reflects intuition rather than careful investigation.” They also note, “[Sensitive] questions can also increase liking by enabling respondents to talk about themselves, an enjoyable proposition for most conversational partners.”

What Questions Should I Ask My Girlfriend?

While you’re free to ask your girlfriend any kind of question you want, some queries assist in building your relationship. For example, you can learn a lot about your person by asking them about their childhood or what qualities they look for in a partner

There are also specific topics to touch on when it comes to relationship maintenance. According to Anita Chlipala , LMFT, author of First Comes Us: The Busy Couple’s Guide to Lasting Love , some of the most important questions to ask your girlfriend include:

What kinds of things do I do that annoy you?
Does anything keep you awake at night that you haven’t shared with me?
Why do you love me? And when did you feel most loved by me?
What would you consider unforgivable and why?
Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing but haven’t yet?

Wrapping Up

228 Questions to Ask a Girl During Your Next Date

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Asking a bunch of questions isn’t just a way good way to get to know someone—it’s also an effective means of letting them know you’re interested in what they have to say. Individuals who ask a lot of questions are perceived more positively, too; appearing likable and more capable of intimacy. At the very least, the practice can lead to some great conversation. You never know when a few interesting questions will snowball into something else entirely; be it an antidote from the past or a friendly debate for new friends.

Of course, you do want to tailor things towards the person you’re speaking with, which is why we’ve compiled a list of questions to ask a girl on a first date or when trying to deepen your connection to someone close. We’ve even got a few questions that you can ask over text. Because let’s be honest—it’s not always easy to be so upfront in person. Below, you’ll find the all material you need to get started.

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228 Fun Questions to Ask a Girl

Check out the list below for new ways to strike up a fun conversation. After all, you never know when a few random questions will lead to a more interesting story. If nothing else, these prompts are sure to help you get to know each other just a little bit better.

Interesting Conversation Starters

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What’s the weirdest tradition your family practices?
What’s your favorite word in the English language?
What’s the most out-of-character thing you’ve ever done?
Do you have a favorite joke?
Who’s your favorite animated character?
What’s your dream job?
Would you rather have more money or more time?
What’s the best way to reconnect with old friends?
How did you meet your best friend?
What’s your go-to karaoke song ?
What’s your favorite movie?
What’s your favorite memory from your time spent overseas?
What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done on vacation?
What’s the first memory you can remember?
What’s your favorite food?
Are you an early bird or a night owl?
What’s your spirit animal?
Have you ever been hypnotized?
What’s the worst job you’ve ever had?
What’s the most embarrassing phase you’ve ever gone through?
What’s the weirdest food you’ve ever tried?
What’s your favorite true crime podcast?
Do you like your name?
Who’s your favorite celebrity chef?
Would you ever take ayahuasca?
Do you have a favorite reality TV show?
What’s your favorite sport that doesn’t involve a ball?
What three words would your friends use to describe you?
Who’s your favorite fictional character?
What do you prefer, sunrise or sunset?
Have you ever been arrested?
Do you often remember your dreams?
Have you ever seen a ghost?
Would you ever pose nude for a photograph or painting?
What’s the weirdest punishment they performed during the Middle Ages?
What’s do you think is the worst quality about the opposite sex?
What’s a fun way to get to know someone, besides dinner and drinks?
What road trips would you like to take?
Would you prefer camping or glamping?
Would you rather have really nice furniture and a small house or really cheap furniture and a mansion?
What is your favorite children’s book?
Would you rather be able to play every instrument in the world or be fluent in all languages?
What’s the fanciest restaurant that you’ve ever been to and what did you order?

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Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl

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Do I look anything like your celebrity crush?
What’s your biggest guilty pleasure?
Do you like having your picture taken?
What about being a woman do you appreciate most?
What’s your favorite thing to do during a first date?
How many guys have performed a grand romantic gesture for you?
What’s the stupidest thing someone has ever said to you on a first date?
What do you think my body language is trying to tell you?
What do you usually wear to bed?
Have you ever purchased something from an adult retailer?
Where do you like to be kissed most?
What’s your favorite part of the male body?
What do you think the most beautiful part of the female body is?
When am I taking you out to dinner?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
What’s your biggest turn-on?
Have you ever filmed yourself getting it on?
What are the top three qualities you look for in a partner?
Do you prefer to make the first move?
Have you ever sent a dirty text message?
Do you prefer kissing or cuddling?
Did you ever have the hots for a teacher?
What color do you think would look best on me?
Where would you rather meet up, a cafe or a bar?
How would you describe your ideal relationship?
What’s more important, intelligence or appearance?
What are your biggest turn-offs?
How many dates would you need to go on before engaging in a Netflix and chill?
Do you have any secret talents?
Do you like trying new things?
Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
Do you like massages?
What’s your favorite way to relax?
Do you have plans this weekend?
Ideally, how long would intimacy last?
Have you ever initiated a booty call?

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Funny Questions to Ask a Girl

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What’s your most embarrassing moment?
What’s the weirdest thing that’s ever happened to you on a date?
What’s the best practical joke someone has ever pulled on you?
What’s the worst pick-up line someone has ever used on you?
How would you defend yourself during a zombie apocalypse?
What’s an irrational fear that you can make some sense of?
Which U.S. president would make the best boyfriend?
What kind of food do you think is totally disgusting?
Who is the least talented actor working today?
What’s your Hogwarts House?
Have you ever lied about your age?
Have you ever participated in a hot dog eating contest?
Would you care if your boyfriend had a more elaborate skincare routine than you?
Do you have a favorite dinosaur?
Would you rather be allergic to the sun or allergic to your favorite food?
What’s the funniest thing you’ve ever overheard?
When was the last time you sent something via snail mail?
What was your favorite TV show as a kid?
What’s your biggest pet peeve?
What’s one habit that you’ve carried with you since childhood?
Pineapple on pizza: yes or no?
Would you rather have a private plane or a private yacht?
What’s your favorite condiment?
What fictional character do you think would be easiest to beat in a fight?
How would you defend yourself during the Purge?
Which color do you think would taste the best?
If you were an instrument what would you be?
What’s one body part do you think you could live without?
Which cartoon character do you think is most likely to be a serial killer?
Which founding father would make the best sugar daddy?
What’s the sexiest fruit you can think of?
What’s the worst bathroom experience you’ve ever had?
How would you react if you found a rodent in your bedroom?
What type of cheese matches your personality best?
What’s your favorite writing utensil?
What show are you currently binge-watching?
Have you ever cross-dressed?
Do you know how to set a table properly?
What’s your favorite cheesy quote?
Whose clothes would you prefer to wear, your mom’s or your dad’s?
Do you still watch any cartoons?
If you had to join the circus, what job would you want?
Would you rather live in a world full of witches or a world full of superheroes?
Let’s say reincarnation is real: What would you want to come back as?

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What If Questions to Ask a Girl

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What if you only had one day left to live? What would you want to do?
What if you could relive one day in your life? Which would you choose and why?
What if you could go back in time and change the future of events? Would you do it?
What if you could read people’s minds? Would you use your superpower for your own personal gain?
What if your family didn’t approve of your significant other? Would you still stay with them?
What if you had to decide between love and money? What would you choose?
What if we got stranded in a remote location? Who do you think would save the day?
What if you met a guy who didn’t speak English? Would you give him a shot?
What if you were given one million dollars? What would you buy first?
What if you had to decide between your vision and your hearing? Which sense would you choose to keep?
What if someone you love committed a terrible crime? Would you visit them in prison?
What if you could live for 200 years? Would you do it?
What if you could cure a disease? Which one would you choose to eradicate?
What if you could experience happiness without any sadness? Would you choose to forgo the latter?
What if you were invited to have tea with the King of England? Would you accept the offer?
What if you could learn a new language with the press of a button? Which one would you choose?
What if you could get away with never doing a certain chore ever again? Which one would you avoid?
What if you became President of the United States? Which cause would you pursue first?
What if you could teleport anywhere in the world? Where would you go?
What if one of my friends made a move on you? Would you let me know?
What if you found out the guy you were dating liked dancing naked to the Backstreet Boys? Would that be a dealbreaker?
What if your boyfriend went to prison? Would you wait for him?
What if I gained a ton of weight? Would you still be interested in me?
What if your worst fear came true? How would you cope?
What if animals could talk? Which would be most annoying to listen to?
What if you weren’t allowed near a computer for the next month? Would you catch up on your reading or simply move operations onto your phone?
What if you could only watch one reality TV show for the rest of your life? Which would you choose?
What if you could only communicate by breaking out into song? Which one would you choose to let people know you were upset?
What if you could play the perfect prank? Who would you target?
What if real life were more like the movies? Which film would you want yours to resemble?
What if your 13-year-old self drafted your dating profile ? What would it say?
What if you went on a first date with someone who only listened to elevator music? Would you agree to go out with them again?
What if you could pick a famous person to insult? Who would you choose and what would you say?
What if you had to eat the same meal every day for the rest of your life? What would you make?
What if you had to choose a different hair color? Which would you settle on?
What if animals could make documentaries about humans? What weird things would they show?
What if you were born a child prodigy? What skill would you want to excel at?

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Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text

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Are you watching anything good right now?
What’s the most annoying thing about where you live?
Have you already had dinner?
How do you feel about small talk?
What’s your favorite emoji?
What’s a GIF that best describes how you’re feeling right now?
How’s work going?
What are you wearing?
What’s the funniest thing you’ve seen on TikTok today?
What are your plans for this weekend?
What’s your favorite place to get takeout from?
What’s the cutest thing your dog/cat has done today?
Is it cold in your apartment/house right now?
Have you had coffee yet?
What are you doing for dinner?
What’s your favorite quote from a movie?
What time are you going to bed?
What’s a song that you can listen to over and over again?
What’s the weirdest message someone has ever sent you on Tinder?
What’s the funniest picture you have on your phone?
Which phone app do you use most?
What’s the weirdest thing that’s happened to you this week?
What do you usually do on the weekends?
Do you want to FaceTime?
Are you watching anything good tonight?
Do you have a favorite documentary?
Will you send me a picture? It can be of anything!

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Deep Questions to Ask a Girl

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What’s the biggest lesson life has ever taught you?
Do you consider yourself a spiritual person?
What do you think is the worst thing about getting older?
What’s one activity that you have on your bucket list?
What’s your favorite childhood memory?
Who is your favorite family member?
Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship ?
What personality trait do you consider to be a red flag?
What types of jobs exist only because people are lazy?
Do you consider yourself to be a good person?
Have you ever confronted any of your deepest fears?
What’s one thing you would want both you and your significant other to enjoy?
Is there anything you would change about yourself?
What do you think is the most dangerous quality a person can possess?
Do you have a good relationship with your mom?
What are three principles you want to instill in your children?
What energizes you?
What’s your worst habit?
If you could be a fly on the wall anywhere and at any point in history, what would you choose and why?
What do you want to be remembered for?
Do you want to get married someday?
If you wanted children, but couldn’t conceive naturally, what other options would you consider?
What’s something you want to achieve in life?
When are you happiest?
If you won the lottery, would you still want to work?
What sounds more appealing, stability or spontaneity?
How can you tell when you’re in love?
Who do you call when you need advice?
Would you take in a stray animal that needed a home?
What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
What smell brings you comfort?
How would you like to be perceived by others?
Do you keep in touch with your exes?
When you enter a room, do you prefer to stand out or blend in?
Would you prefer to live in a treehouse in the woods or a cottage by the ocean?
Would you rather be known for your beauty or kindness?
What’s the most important thing for a healthy relationship?
What single event has had the biggest impact on who you are?
What’s the most extreme example of poverty you’ve ever seen?
Do you think that war is inevitable or that specific leadership styles can help us avoid it?
Do you believe in past lives?

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